How could I forget to include one of my very favorite things, the moby wrap!? It's been a life-saver. Or, honestly, a germ saver. It keeps people from being able to rub all over him. Because seriously, people see a baby and their first reaction is to touch them. I have worn little man at three wedding receptions, and I would have been stressed to the max had I not had the moby.
Do NOT be intimidated by the wrapping. Once you do it a couple times you don't even have to think about it anymore.